What About Me
I’ve been getting a lot of new visitors to my page lately and I wanted to open up a little to anyone who is willing to read. My morning was spent Google searching About Me questions that I can answer for you. Below are a few of the ones that I felt were worth answering. Please feel free to answer some yourself in the comment section!
DO YOU HAVE KIDS?
I have an eight year old son, who is smart as a whip but as stubborn as his mom.
Spiders! I still have a small fear of the dark; I’m not afraid of the boogeyman but I don’t like that something unknown could lay right in front of or behind me. Heights don’t bother me, but I do have a fear of falling, so if I’m up high I had better be secure. Scientologists also frighten me a bit.
WOULD YOU BUNGEE JUMP?
I want to say yes to this question, I really do. But honestly, anything extreme such as bungee jumping, skydiving, or cliff diving scares the piss out of me. I’m not afraid of heights, but the whole possibility of death is enough to put me off of taking that particular plunge.
TWO PET PEEVES?
Rude eaters; keep your mouth closed and keep the sound effects to a minimum. Bad drivers; use your turn signals, drive somewhere close to the speed limit, don’t tailgate, and get off your phone!
ARE YOU RELIGIOUS?
I am not. I was raised Catholic but began to doubt the existence of a God once I was able to educate myself about other religions, science, and was able to directly expose myself to different types of people and beliefs. I am a proud Atheist. That said, I DO in fact have morals and values and I encourage my son to believe what he wishes (he was baptized as a baby and currently believes in God in the way you’d expect an eight year old to believe).
DO YOU THINK YOU ARE STRONG?
I do. I’ve been through a lot of hellacious situations and I somehow have survived them all. Health scares, financial turmoil, family turning against me, losing nearly everything I’ve owned, and things I’d never mention in a public forum. I don’t often give myself proper credit for it, but I am definitely a strong individual.
WHAT IS THE FIRST THING YOU NOTICE ABOUT PEOPLE?
How they are dressed, their hairstyle, etc. I’m not looking for fashion statements or designer labels, but looking for whether or not a person seems put together, neat and organized, clean, and respectful. If you’re covered in filth or wearing socks and crocs, I’ll likely write you off. If you’re clean and you look like you made sure you were properly put together prior to leaving the house, I feel that you’re worth my time.
ARE YOU SHY?
I’m very shy upon first meeting someone; I tend to lean on someone I know until I become comfortable with the new person. I also become shy and withdrawn when thrust into unfamiliar situations. Public speaking is only an issue when I feel unprepared; if I’m asked to stand and say a few words unexpectedly, I will likely freeze.
WOULD YOU FORGIVE SOMEONE FOR LYING TO YOU?
It depends what the lie is. If my husband lied about an affair or something else of that nature, forgiveness would come hard or not at all. If someone tells me I look pretty when I look like I just ran a marathon after being mauled by a tiger, I’ll forgive that lie and love you for it. Lies that protect me from silly things of that nature or that protect you because you’re not ready to tell me something about yourself can be forgiven. Lies about serious things (you once killed a man, you stole my cash last night) may eventually be forgiven, but certainly not forgotten.
I have ten. I’m a big fan of body art and I love expressing myself through the pictures decorating my body. I hope that one day, people will stop associating tattoos with criminals, deviants, and slackers. I do plan on getting more; I’m working on a half sleeve and I want to add to a couple existing pieces.
BEST PIECE OF ADVISE?
If you have to poll your friends and family about your situation prior to making a decision, chances are you already know the answer and are simply looking for either an assurance that you are correct or looking for someone to talk you out of something. Trust your instincts.
REPUBLICAN OR DEMOCRAT?
Neither. No party out there has it all and I don’t want to align myself with any of them. Some definitely have more valid points and better views than the others, but none of them have gotten things right enough for me to jump on their bandwagon.
DO YOU PREFER EMAIL/TEXT OR PHONE CALLS?
My current cell phone plan has 400 minutes, of which I use about 20 per month. I’d decrease the minutes if Sprint would release a data plan with fewer. I used to be big on talking on the phone, but now I prefer to text or email. I can’t really carry on a conversation here at work, and when I’m home I’m busy with my husband, son, and dog. I’ll text you immediately, but if you call, I’ll probably let it go to voicemail.
WHAT IS YOUR GOAL IN LIFE?
I want to eventually earn money for writing, be it through books or blogs or articles for a newspaper or magazine. I’m slowly getting there, as I do earn a bit of cash from this blog. I want to become fully financially stable, for myself, my husband, and our boy. I want to be happy with who I am; I know I may never be 100% satisfied, but I need to be close to it. I want to learn to relax and take things in stride. Whatever happens around that doesn’t matter so long as I can do those things as so long as I have my family with me as I do them.